Some Long Term Effects of Head Injury *

Some Long term effects of head injury

 

*unique problems

 

The presence of cognitive or personality problems have a large bearing on whether work is possible.

The problems may be quite subtle, yet have huge effects on a person’s life, so that  they are no less disabling.

Identify your personal strengths and weaknesses and develop practical strategies to avoid them.

FOCUS ON STRATEGIES AND YOUR STRENGTHS

There is often personality change after traumatic brain injury (Tbi)

Read a good book by Martin van den Broek on Living with Head Injury

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Here are some of m’s notes (very neat and decipherable unlike mine) and mine (brief) from a very traumatic time in our lives “many moons” ago… when we were trying desperately to “dig ourselves out of the mire”. I hope this information may be helpful to those struggling with these issues

c New Zealand

August 2016

MY DIFFICULTIES (big)

* following conversations, especially when there are more than two people.

* doing two things simultaneously, eg writing down a phone message and talking , or simply walking and talking!

* retaining information

 

* joining clubs (I’m not a “clubbie person”)

*group situations – especially role-plays and feedback

 

* comprehension- both verbal and written – so I read aloud. Have difficulty in responding to questions

 

* telling prospective employers about my problem areas??

* fatigue (chronic), especially in the afternoons

 

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NML

Here are my notes (brief) from a very traumatic time in our lives “many moons” ago…

I can’t steer a discussion by introducing new ideas, or talk about concepts. I can only elaborate by adding facts (and not ideas) already learnt. Cannot follow ideas being put across. I have no recall of what was said, no matter how hard I concentrate. I can only recall if the info is something that I know “off pat” already. I have no ( can’t make) creative or abstract contributions.

I have difficulty in using, uttering long sentences, but can only give/impart facts learnt by rote. Can not answer questions, if they relate to the application of knowledge. I get by through talking vaguely and generally about anything, even if it’s off the subject matter

Short attention span. Think of reply and practice saying, but lose thread, because of slowq processing and “info overload”.

I was AMAZED how other people could put together a logical argument made up of a number of different ideas in an orderly sequence. I can only impart knowledge learnt by rote in a disjointed way.

I thought they were all so bright (even the school-leavers). At this work meeting/discussion I was totally relaxed without stress.

NB

The only conversations I can follow are about information that I know already. All this observation and analysis followed a work discussion/meeting today.

For me these revelations were absolutely amazing, realizing that I had a “mental screen”, seeing other people (“normal”) receive and impart information and ideas, whereas with me they just seemed to bounce off my screen. For the first time I realised that I was the “abnormal” one and that they weren’t all geniuses.  A “eureka moment”, when things began to make some sense in trying to put the pieces of the puzzle together… the many shattered pieces of our broken life.

 

C  Australia September 1988

 

From my book A Journey from Darkness into the Light that I’m currently writing and may publish on Amazon today (a quick first draft)

 “We share what we know, so that we all may grow.”

“Sharing, informing, educating, encouraging, empowering, igniting, uplifting (and perhaps even) inspiring”

 

A JOURNEY FROM DARKNESS INTO THE LIGHT

 

by craig lock

 

A Journey from Darkness into the Light

 

Autobiography, memoirs, head injury, traumatic brain injury, TBI), hope,  uplifting story, inspiration

 

Writing into the Light

Craig’s book Writing into the Light is now available at

http://www.amazon.com/Writing-into-Light-beautiful-tranquil/dp/1493735586/

 

and the Kindle edition at

http://www.amazon.com/Writing-into-Light-Stirling-Prize-ebook/dp/B00GMO1P9S

A NEW DAWN, new hope in beautiful and tranquil “little” New Zealand

 

 

PROLOGUE

I came across this fine bit of writing, which I could closely relate to in those dark days in -. Diana’s words describe my feelings better than I could myself… so here they are…

“People speak glibly about life changing moments. Some truly qualify. You propose marriage and are accepted. You hear, ‘You’re hired’ or ‘You’re fired’ and your future shifts instantly. The doctor says ‘malignant’ (or something else life-changing) and everything is different. But anyone who has ever lived through it will tell you: It is profoundly shattering to learn, in one instant, that everything you thought was true about a loved one (my words: or perhaps your own life) is actually a lie. (Your entire world is turned upside down – what you thought about yourself, and what gave meaning to your life). The world rocks on its axis; when it is finally steady again, you are in a strange place that resembles, but is totally unlike the place you were in just a moment earlier.”
– fine and perceptive writing by Diana B Henriques from ‘Wizard of Lies; Bernie Madoff and the Death of Trust’

From A Book Extract (as published in the New Zealand Herald)

And that’s exactly as m and I  felt*, as we tried to absorb the words of the …

* Shattered and Broken!
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Available at

https://www.amazon.com/Open-Book-My-Story-Part-ebook/dp/B00MD4U9QQ

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The various books that Craig “felt inspired to write” (includingWriting into the Light ) are available at :http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005GGMAW4

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=la_B005GGMAW4_sr?rh=i%3Abooks&field-author=Craig+Lock&sort=relevance&ie=UTF8&qid

http://goo.gl/vTpjk and http://www.creativekiwis.com/amazon.html

All proceeds go to needy and underprivileged children –

MINE!

PPS

Don’t worry about the world ending today…

it’s already tomorrow in “little scenic and tranquil” New Zealand

from http://www.writingintothelightbook.wordpress.com

from http://www.amazon.com/Golden-Dawn-Being-Written-Unfolds/dp/1494359251

from my Wordpres blogs at

https://craigsbooks.wordpress.com/2013/11/15/writing-into-the-light/

https://writingintothelightbook.wordpress.com/category/books-by-craig-lock/

and

https://www.google.co.nz/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=craig%20lock%20%2B%20bernie%20madoff

 

 

https://craigsquotes.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/wainui-beach-photo-by-dave-beard.jpg?w=440

“Together, one mind, one life (one small step at a time), let’s see how many people (and lives) we can encourage, impact, empower, enrich, uplift and perhaps even inspire to reach their fullest potentials…and strive for and perhaps one sunny day even achieve their wildest dreams.”

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About craig lock

About the Author Craig has a 'passion' for writing books that tell stories about people doing positive things in this often so hard, sometimes unkind world, occasionally cruel, yet always amazing world - true stories that leave the reader feeling uplifted, empowered and hopefully even inspired. https://www.createspace.com/3779691/ and http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005GGMAW4 Craig Lock loves to encourage and empower people to be the best they can possibly be, and to create what they want in life. Craig has learnt plenty from the "school of life" (still "battered and bruised") and also from a few "hard knocks on the head". He is an extensive world traveller (on a "shoestring budget") and failed professional emigrater who has spent most of his lifes savings on airfares. He is still sliding down the razor blade of life on the beautiful undiscovered island that is New Zealand, somewhere near the bottom (rude!) of the world near Antarctica. There he talks to the 60 million sheep! Craig has been involved in the corporate world (life assurance) for over twenty years in South Africa, Australia and New Zealand. However, through a strange set of circumstances and finding himself in a small town near the bottom of the world ...and with nothing else to do, he started writing. That was five years ago. Five published books later and having written another twenty manuscripts (on widely differing subjects - well what else is there to do here?)... this is where Craig is in the "journey/adventure" that is life. Craig has taught at the local Polytechnic, as well as running a successful creative writing course (not teaching sheep!). He was the author of (as far as we know) the first creative writing course on the internet Craig has many varied interests and passions. He is particularly interested in the field of psychology – studying the human mind and what makes different people "tick-tock grandfather clock". He is fascinated by the "overlap between psychology and the dimension of spirituality". One of his missions in life is helping people make the most of their hidden potential and so finding their niche in life... so that they are happy. Craig’s various books probably tell more about his rather "eventful" life best (no one could believe it!). He writes books with serious messages and themes, then as a contrast "rather crazy, wacky stuff"…to keep him sane here. As an ‘anonymouse’ person wrote: "All of us are born mad; some of us remain so." Well nothing else much happens in quiet provincial New Zealand, other than headlines like "Golf Ball Thrown at Policeman" (it missed, btw!) and "Beach Toilet Closed for Season." True! The various books* that Craig “felt inspired to write” are available at ebooks (digital books) http://www.amazon.com/-/e/B005GGMAW4 http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=la_B005GGMAW4_sr?rh=i%3Abooks&field-author=Craig+Lock Paperbacks (see https://goldendawnpublishing.wordpress.com/2016/12/20/paperback-writer/ and https://wanttowriteabook.wordpress.com/2013/06/07/paperback-writer-the-beatles/ https://www.createspace.com/pub/simplesitesearch.search.do?sitesearch_query=%22craig+lock%22&sitesearch_type=STORE https://www.amazon.com/Craig-Lock/e/B005GGMAW4/ref=pe_584750_33951330_sr_tc_2_0?qid=1476388259&sr=1-2-ent http://www.creativekiwis.com/index.php/books and http://goo.gl/vTpjk All proceeds go to needy and underprivileged children – MINE! “When the writer is no more , the value of your purchase will soar! “ “Together, one mind, one life (one small step at a time), let’s see how many people (and lives) we can encourage, impact, empower, enrich, uplift and perhaps even inspire to reach their fullest potentials…and strive for and perhaps one sunny day even achieve their wildest dreams.” PPS Don’t worry about the world ending today… as it’s already tomorrow in scenic and tranquil ‘little’ New Zealand
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